I’m talking to the women here.

I advocate learning to “Take your pleasure”.

I guarantee you, all your lover wants is to make you sexually satisfied and fulfilled.

Sometimes, that means your lover wants to be used for your pleasure.

You have to give yourself permission to take your pleasure, to choose this for yourself and then to unabashedly use your lover for your own pleasure.

Your lover will be thrilled and grateful for the experience.

What would it look like for you to find your pleasure and then to take your pleasure?