We all know there are extremely large women who feel like curvy sex goddesses and tiny slim women who hate their bodies.

At some point we choose how we feel about our bodies and thus how we carry ourselves in the world.

Every sexy woman at some point has made a choice to let herself feel sexy, gorgeous and delicious and to share herself with the world through her presence.

Maybe she doesn’t feel gorgeously delicious all the time, but when she chooses to, she can go out into the world feeling fabulous about herself.

What would happen if we chose to carry ourselves as if we are incredibly attractive and gorgeous? Who says we can’t?

Choosing to believe in our own sexiness does nothing but improve our lives and those around us.

Big women who choose to honor and stand in their own attractiveness are incredibly inspiring to me. No one gave them permission to feel attractive, in fact our culture is focused on telling them they are clearly not attractive. But at some point some of these women just decided the strong, money-making cultural messages were wrong and they determined for themselves their own attractiveness and worth. And we are all better off because of it.

Some women are making the choice for themselves that they are attractive in their own body, whatever their size.

What are you waiting for?